Life is not about proving anyone wrong, it is about proving yourself right. Life is not about competing others but life is about competing against yourself. To make sure you are better than your previous self. Better than you were yesterday. To make sure you are growing every day developing, learning, experiencing. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about being happy; not all the time but every time you can.
Be Kind To Yourself too!
When you have a choice to be right or to be kind, be kind because life is not about being right all the time. It’s not about noticing the negatives, it’s about creating such huge positives the negatives pale in comparison. Life is not about you, it’s about everyone and everything. We are all connected and all sharing challenges and struggles. Be kind, lifts others up. Give freely without expecting anything in return and the world will return happiness and abundances beyond your wildest dreams.
Life is not about all money. You can’t take it with you, so don’t stress about it. This doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it or should not have it. You can create unlimited abundance and use that to do good for others and yourself and you do deserve it, just don’t stress about it. Money is great but only when used with positive intentions.
Don’t Compare Yourself With Others!
Life is not about comparing yourself to others. Let everyone else be exactly as they are while you focus on being the best you. Life is not defined by circumstances. Life not defined by what you do or does not happen to you. But it is defined by how you react to what happens to you. How you choose to react to the circumstances and events that arrive in your own life. It’s helpful to remember challenges are just tests. Hard times are tests and character builders. It is in our greatest challenges that our greatest strength is formed so never lose your spirit because. That is when our character shines, right after the storm.
You Are A Miracle!
What really important is who you become through all of life’s challenges. What you make and accumulate will never be a match for who you are and how much happiness you bring to this world. Don’t ever forget that. You are a miracle. This world a blessing. Life is really what you make it. Live every day like you are blessed. Live every day as you are grateful to simply be alive. Be happy no matter what happens and life will be the amazing adventure it was meant to be.
We all want things to happen in our life we want to change but how many of us are truly happy with where we are now. If you can take a moment to be still and feel how happy you are with life right now, you will get some indication of how close you are to the things you want.
Manifest Your Life.
In order to manifest what you want we must hold an image of it and feel it. Feel it in every way we possibly can. Feel the image of what you want by moving around in it. Ask yourself: What would it feel like if you were doing exactly what you wanted to be doing? Move in it, feel it. Feel what it’s like to have the family of your dreams, or the house, job or car. Imagine being in that situation and feel what it is like? Play with the kids, or the dog in the image of your house talk or laugh with the colleagues or clients in the image of your perfect job. Walk with the image of your loved ones, feel the warmth of their hand on yours. Feel how wonderful it is to be so close to the one you are meant to be with. Feel what it’s like to be living now in your image of what you want.
Give time to really know what this feels like to be there. Once you have done that, it is time to just let it go. It means you have to start knowing that it is on its way. Don’t get caught in the trap say to yourself: “well I know what I want, but it’s not happening” and then feel depressed or disappointed about it and give up. Don’t give up on the image of your happiness that’s why you want because you believe it will bring you the greatest happiness. Allow the universe to bring you what you want, by knowing at a deep level of feeling, that it is on its way.
Guess What Is Going To Happen In Life?
Have you ever known that something is going to happen? Surely you have! You have known that tomorrow you are going to hop in your car and drive to work, you know that next week you are going to the gym, as you do every week. You know that you are going to get the groceries soon or you know that tomorrow you will wake up and have breakfast. We all know about things that are going to happen, you can use this feeling of knowing that something is going to happen to transfer onto your dreams as well. If you can get into that place where you know that something is going to happen like your birthday without being attached to when it is going to happen. This will help you when you are manifesting your desires to get into that knowing place.
Know that your want is going to happen and feel it, know that it is coming, and when you think about it keep putting yourself in alignment with it. Say to yourself: Yes it is happening to me because I have felt it, I know it is coming and I believe in it, I believe in myself and I will not push it away with negative thoughts, doubts or fear.
Pledge yourself!
Pledge yourself that I will not talk about it with others in a negative way, I believe that somehow, someway, I will have this experience. I will be filled with joy when I notice that is happening to me and when I see it coming I will not run away from it, I will stand in front of it and I will say YES, thank you for coming to me. This is even better than I thought it was going to be then, come out of that place and feel happy about where you are now.
If you know that what you want is coming and you really believe it and feel that it will happen just like a birthday or Eid then, you can be happy about where you are now. Look around and find the things to be grateful for. Be happy now because you know that what it wants is on its way!
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