Single does not mean lonely, the relationship does not mean happy. It’s the bitter truth of our society that when anyone tells someone that he or she is single. They look like that it’s something bad. People need to understand that single is way more than status. Sometimes I’M SINGLE means, I refuse to settle for less. It may mean that I am working on me. Sometimes single stands for stress is now gone life easier’s. Do not let friends, family or anybody rush you into a relationship. Don’t let loneliness rush you into a relationship.
Hollow Reality!
You ain’t missing out. That’s a fact. People follow those couples on Instagram. You know the ones. Do you ever wonder why they always show you the highlight reels but never show you the behind the scenes? See, they appear to be happy all the time but things are not always they seem. Those so-called power couples. See low key they have, Power Struggles. See, they post about relationship goals. But in reality, it’s a relationship.
#relationship goals
I am not saying that relationships are bad! They can be beautiful. I am saying that don’t let anybody pressure you. Take your time because see the worst thing in life is not being alone, it’s ending up with someone that makes you feel alone. See, we live in a world where every romantic movie every song on the radio, says that you will need somebody to complete you. But the reality no one can complete you, only self-love will complete you.
Work On Yourself.
See everybody wants to find the one, Newsflash! you are the one. Don’t wait for anybody to make you happy because that’s a guaranteed way to end up sad. If you are unhappy, a relationship won’t improve it. It will expose it. You gotta make you happy, being single is the best time to make yourself the person you want to attract. And once you become that you become a magnet for them. So you don’t have to chase that person down. They will come to you as just the right time came and it won’t be somebody just to go with you. It will be somebody there that will grow with you. Somebody who can be yourself around. And have fun doing absolutely nothing with. Somebody you can be best friends with.
A wise man said: It’s not a lack of love but it’s a lack of friendship that makes unhappy relationships. So you gotta find that friend but at first, you gotta be a friend of yours. So stay single until you get someone who adds real value to your life. That supports you, that nourish you. Otherwise, it ain’t really works!
Impact Of People In Our Life.
Sometimes we receive love from the most unexpected and unlikely places. There is a concept called a circle of love. Often we give love to certain people and that love comes back to us even if not though those same people. Sometimes in our life, we receive love through people but those are not necessarily the people that we give love back to.
People came into our life for 3 things. A season, a reason and a lifetime. When we understood which one it is we are able to reciprocate accordingly.
Some people came into our life for a season.
It’s exciting, it’s enthralling, and it’s incredible, but that season has to move on. That season has the next phase. That season has the next point. Some people don’t care for you when you are alone they just care when they are alone.
Some people came into our life for a reason.
To help you learn, to help you grow, to help support you through your most difficult times. Never forget the person who was there for you when no one else was. When they had every reason to not be there. When could have used any excuse to not be in your life! They chose to be right there next to you. They may be there to help you physically, emotionally, spiritually. It almost feels like they have been sent.
Some people who came into our life for a lifetime.
And then you have friends that are there for a lifetime. They are something hidden in the cracks. Even they were sometimes not recognized but they stood there by your side. These were the people that you often forgot. The people who were busy loving you even when you were giving nothing to them.
Ask yourself, who in your life has played this role? Who is your life has been there for a lifetime? How can you show them that they matter to you? How can you reach out to them to make sure that you know that they care? Ask yourself who has been there in your worst time? Who’s been there for you when no one else has? Reach out to them. Make sure to them that you care. Often we feel we care more about people than care for us. We are just looking at the wrong people.
