Avoid being “NEGATIVE” when it comes to tough situations.


When most horrible state of affairs comes into view on the way of your life, you just stop being positive. Fair enough! It turned out level headed too. The merely accepted wisdom that comes to your mind concerning rough & hard-hitting situations is “WHY WOULD I BE POSITIVE?”

FactualPerson enduring bitter, when everything around him is falling apart, disillusionment, crumbling can never stay pessimistic. Well, at least it is not about right or wrong. It is how almost disturbance & collapsing compose you to think.

“Being positive does not mean ignoring the negative. Being positive means overcoming the negative. There is a big difference between the two.”


Being negative never alleviate your exigent frame of mind. Eventually negative thoughts start blurring your self-appraisal and clouding your perceptions. So this is how you preserve with good thoughts and being a positive individual.

Complications are meant to tackle not to surrender:

The more you absorb fears the more you twig to negativity. Someone get the real picture of life, “When things go wrong as they sometimes will; when the road you are trudging seems all uphill; when the funds are low, and the debts are high. And you want to smile but you have to sigh. When care is pressing you down a bit. Res if you must. But don’t you quit. Success is a failure turned inside out; the silver line of the clouds of doubt. And you can never tell how close you are it maybe near when it seems afar. So, stick to the fight when you are hardest hit. It is when things go wrong that you must not quit”


“Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skill. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.

(Jim Rohn)

  • You should allow yourself to suffer and experience the unpleasant situations.
  • Rebuff to be a victim.
  • Always be munificent to yourself.
  • Never judge yourself against others.
  • Always keep in mind that great things take time.
  • Keep your health & mind fit. Do workout!
  • Never consider what other people think about you.
  • Always keep in mind that you are stronger than you think.

Self-esteem should be prior:

If you want to go up to any challenge you ought to trust in yourself. If you really want to increase your positivism you have to kill insecurities and lack of confidence. You must be confident of what qualities you incredibly have got. Never be ashamed, value yourself, your capability and your competency contributes this world implausibly.

When you start your morning taking in “Negative speech” or message, it ruin all the residual part of your day. Probably a single moment destruct your sentiments causing you “negativity”, between success and failure there is a thin line which transforms you help you be more happy and confident and that “Believing your own self”

“Love yourself enough to create an environment in your life that is conductive to the nourishment of your personal growth. Allow yourself to let go of the people, thoughts, and situations that poison your well-being. Cultivated a vibrant surrounding and commit yourself to making choices that will help you release the greatest expressions of your unique beauty and purpose.”

Dr. Steve Maraboli.

Be grateful for what you have:

Ironically, when life turns up into ruthless situations person slowly but surely befall ingratitude. Person demanding success and prosperity should not compare his life with the ones having better in their lives. When you see things are more headache than it is worthy, you ultimately start comparison resulting ungratefulness. Make small things a reason of your smiles & laughter see the people who do not have blessings what you have comprised.


“Don’t waste another minute dealing with a toxic, negative, energy draining person. Some people are wired for negativity. They love being argumentative, combative and abusive. Run for your life as quickly as possible.”

(Les Brown)

Many of people around us believe that negative thinking is a second nature. When things go off the beam or what you planned about you get depressed about your life. A depressed person can never see the bright side of whatever thing or issue. Whenever you feel low down go back to your past flashes and consider the good things you have been granted your negativity shifts towards positivism.

Prefer silence:

We all have been taught about “silence” since childhood. Before understanding negative thinking you must have to cope up with a bad thought. Hard situations are meant to be a challenge to your life and though in every challenge there is a gift. Silence preferably considered as peaceful nature person. Not every situation necessitates words and speeches, peaceful environment are crucial often. While, it is a true fact taking glibly helps to escalate the confidence level & reinforcement of camaraderie. *smile*

“Free yourself from the people who cause you drama and poison your soul. You know who they are… the first ones you thought of when you read this. They have to go.”

(Steve Maraboli)

Talking is not obligatory mark when you are around a huge public whether you are on any bus stop, train, waiting zones or any municipal spot. This is so much understandable if a person speaks less there will be less attempts of negativity.

A positive thinker:

Positive thoughts are another mark to intellect and sage.  A positive thinker is a wise person to embark upon hard situations.  There comes some situations when someone interject a clumsy comment while conversation. When a person hits you on your feeble point you start being negative for him. This should be control by every being. Negativity never makes you satisfied & contented. Always seek to gain an understanding level that is how you get to inclusion. You have to recollect yourself from a critical situation being positive. Opinions never define your worth this should be memorized.


What is correct is not always trouble free to determine in this complex world. What is right would not always nourish your pride. Protecting your opinions going unchecked maybe sometimes create evils in the minds. One should navigate at all the sides before grabbing in to the conclusions. Perfection is unrealistic so, being a better version of your self should be what you scrutinize.

Stay Blessed!

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