An ideal life is when we all have a head, heart and a hand. All three elements working together in alignment is the first sign to lead an ideal life. So an ideal life for me is a life, and this applies to a company, an organization, an instruction for me. Without one or the other, we start to lose something.
What A Good Head Is?
So, the head is the clarity of vision, what you want. Knowing what you want, the way you picture life and being able to navigate and make the decision to get there. That’s a good head.
A Good Heart
A good heart is being able to understand what your intuition and heart want. Being able to connect and tap into that. Understanding deeper and beyond the vision, you may have painted for yourself.
So I often say to people that you will get to where you want in life just not in the way you imagined and that’s because the path that paved up and down is far different to the path we have paved. So you can have a great head and a great vision and a great mission and know where you want to go. But if your heart is not able to have that resilience and be able to adapt and have compassion and care and all of that then you are not gonna be able to make the toughest decision without your heart. But to be able to realize that we need to care and be sustainable and long-lasting requires a heart.
A Good Hand
And a hand is that service wanting to pass that on, that which you have. Wanting to give it forward. Pay it forward. The idea of serving with what you have. I feel that ” Your passion is for you, your purpose id for others”. Your passion makes you happy. But when yo use passion to make a difference in someone else’s life, that’s a service, that’s a purpose and that’s the hand. So those are the three elements of an ideal life, but the three E’s are
- Element
- Environment
- Energy
Element Of Life
Everyone has an element that they thrive in. If you take someone out of their element they won’t be the same. One example is Michael Jordan, who is incredible at basketball. You took out him of basketball, put him into baseball, no one remembers his career. You are talking about one of the best athletes of all time.
Supportive Environment
Your environment is the environment around you. You can take a fish out of the water and give it a beautiful mansion and a Bentley and all the money in the world but it will die. And that’s what we are like our environment. Everyone who is in an environment in which they thrive which we have to craft. Your boss if you are at work, is never gonna ask you, “Hey, what environment do you succeed in?” So we have to create an environment where we thrive.
Positive Energy
And then came energy. Some of us love high energy environments, high pressure. Many want low energy environments and low pressure. Figuring out energy and the frequency in which you operate best will help you thrive as well.
So for me, these are the three E’s for creating a thriving environment. Know your element, know your environment, know your energy. And so all times, if you see anything going wrong, ask yourself,” Is my element out of alignment? my environment or my energy?” That’s a great 3 question test you can do to yourself when you don’t think things are going right. And you have to do is to bring it back.
A Peaceful Life Is Not A Dream
A reasonable life can be achieved by anyone. An OK life, an OK job, OK relationships… anyone can have these. If you want a great life, you must commit to leading a great life. To doing things the majority do not do. Commit to thinking like the minority, not like the majority. Here are seven principles to live by, for an abundant, happy and successful life.
Life Is Today!
One day you will be gone. It may be 50 years, 50 weeks or it may the next week or even today. I don’t know, you don’t know even nobody knows. And rather than living in fear of this, we should embrace the fact that this life is short. Short and unpredictable. Knowing this, we must live fully today. It is not the recipe of recklessness, rather a recipe to give your all today. To give your very best today. In everything you do. To give your greatest energy to this day. To your family, to everyone you encounter today. It is a reminder for you to leave your best self in each moment. What if they could not speak to you tomorrow, what if you were gone tomorrow, what will you do that will leave a lasting positive memory in the lives of everyone you come into contact with?
“There is no perfect condition so now is the perfect time and today is the perfect day to take action.”
Debasish Mridha
Nothing Is Impossible In Life.
There is nothing you can not do, be or have. If there has been someone, even one person on this planet that has done it before, that means you can too. It does not mean that it will be easy, but it does mean it is possible. and as long as it is possible, you can work towards it. You can make a plan. Learn what needs to be done for you to live your craziest, most abundant life. A life most would consider impossible, but you know impossible broken downstate is I AM POSSIBLE. You know impossible broken downstate is simply the process of making a plan and being willing to work for that plan.
Your Happiness Matters
Nothing is worthy if it does not make you happy. If it does not make you happy or better, do not make time for it. Now before any of you jump on it, let me clarify. It does not make you happy means, it does not make you happy at yet, while you are doing it or it is not going to make you happy as a result of doing it, is most likely not worth it. Just about everything worth fighting for is going to require a real fight to win a great prize.
You will have to suffer and sacrifice for almost anything worthwhile in life, but you should ask yourself this question about everything you do in your life: Does this make me happy? If the answer is NO. Ask yourself: Will this sacrifice I am making lead to more happiness in the long term? If not, you should let it go.
Conclusion
It is about being lighthearted, knowing that in the end, none of this stuff matters. The only thing that ever matters is how you made others feel and how you felt in your own heart. It is about knowing that things can never go with you in the end. The spirit lives on., but the things die with your physical body. Remembering that we are going to die is the greatest reminder we can have in our daily lives because it keeps us focused on what’s really important, and what is real.
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