n unplugged wedding ceremony is a ceremony in which the couple requests that guests put away cell phones, cameras, and any other devices in order for them to be present at the moment.
in simple words, more and more couples are asking guests to divorce their digital devices for the day! It’s known as an unplugged wedding, and couples nationwide are requesting, or even requiring, that guests turn off their technological devices. Brides and grooms are also spreading the word on save-the-dates, wedding websites, and ceremony programs.
Even a sign at the event that is not tasteful is considered inappropriate. But there are limits. “A big no-no is, for example. You don’t want to have an actual bouncer there, you know, controlling the scene”, according to Anja Winikka of Theknot.com.
And… no one wants to get in the way of the official photographer.
Starting with Pre-Wedding Prep
Abby Larson of the wedding website Stylemepretty.com says powering down can start with pre-wedding prep. So photos of the bride don’t spoil the big reveal.
“They still want their groom to see them in their gown for the very first time when the doors open.”
Explaining Tech-Free Decisions to Guests
The decision to go tech-free could offend some guests who prefer to stay plugged in.
Winikka says, “The best you can do is really explain to them the reason why you’re having this unplugged wedding, explain to them the benefits, and hope that they understand.”
Ending With A Helpful Tip
Wedding etiquette experts say if you do request that your guests “unplug”, and someone needs to make a call for personal reasons like checking on the kids, be sure to give them your blessing.
