Imagine if you got what you want, every time; no struggle, no hard work, and no challenges. No hard work required! some of us are saying that would be great. You would be weak and when something hard comes up in your life, you would not know how to handle it because you have never gone through anything that strengthens you.
So the point is, you can not grow without struggle. You can not develop strength without resistance, without challenging yourself, without struggle. Pain is your friend. May be not in the moment, but for the evolution of your soul, for the long term benefit of you, for a stronger human being, pain is your friend!
Failures are the best assets one have!
If you did not have failures, if you did not have struggles, if you did not have disappointments, you could have no strength, no courage, no compassion. Actually these qualities are made from your pain and struggle. You were given pain because you are strong enough to handle it. Life is given to you because you are strong enough to live it, because you are strong enough to drive through it, thrive through it and to inspire others through it.
You are stronger than you think!
You have survived all of the challenges to this point and you will survive whatever is coming. But next time a struggle comes, I don’t want you to curse the sky. Know that it was sent for a reason and a lesson. It might be to make you stronger, to teach you patience, it might be for you to show others your spirit. There is a reason! so don’t you give up.
You have a purpose in this world and you will only find it if you keep going and keep growing. Your struggle is a part of your story, it made you the person you are today. Grateful to the struggle, ready to write the next chapter. Your struggle is your life, is your gift, is the ladder that made you what you are today. See, many people look at struggle like it is a bad thing but your struggle will be the gift that the world falls in love with.
Nobody wants to hear the story of the man who was given everything. People want to hear the stories of men and women that endured pain and turned their struggle into a gift.
Do you really want people just to feel sorry for you?
Do you really want people just to feel sorry for you? or do you want to be a legend? because legends are born in the valley of struggle. You are greater than anything that has happened to you. Fear is only a fictional movie but the reality is struggle! So take the struggle and change your reality. Because the whole time you were thinking that the struggle was holding you back, it was really giving you the tools to become one of the greatest. No more second-guessing, no more blaming others for the problems that you have in your life
Be courageous in the journey of struggle!
Courage is not formed in the absence of fear and strength is never formed in absence of challenges. Strong people fall down but they don’t stay down. Strong people break but they don’t stay broken. They mend, they piece themselves back together and they come back stronger. Strong people are not special, they are relentless, strong people feel like quitting but they don’t. Strong people are not free from challenges. They are because of the challenges.
Hellen Keller once said:
A character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through the experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.”
Trust your struggle!
Whatever you have been through TRUST. It was sent for a purpose. Look back and think about how it makes you stronger, wiser or better. Use the pain of your past to create a better future for yourself. There’s a saying: I have never met a strong person an easy past.
Strong people are strong because their past was not easy. But in that pain, in that struggle strength came. Through the hell, came qualities from heaven. They went through the darkness and found the light. When you are down, understand that this moment will pass.
If the going gets tuff, so the tuff also gets going!
When things seem impossible, know everything could be turned into possible if you keep going. When you feel like you have no strength inside, dig a little deeper in your soul and discover what is really inside. Trust that whatever is happening in your life is for a reason and a purpose. Believe that there is something good in every situation and try to find that good. Know that through this struggle, you will get stronger. You will be wiser, you will be better.
Our struggle makes us strong.
To be human means you have challenges. Being human means to experience highs and lows and it’s in those low moments that character is formed. It is those low moments in refusing to quit, in soldiering on, that strength is formed. If you can find the strength, think about all that is good in your life. Know that the goo is stronger than your challenges and keep fighting because of that good. Keep fighting for those you love, for yourself. You have so much more to give. So much more to live. Such an example to set.
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